I want to take a poll of how many women had intercourse with their man before he went down on them. Then I want to ask the same group of women how many performed oral sex on their man before they had intercourse with them… ?
I feel like women can be hesitant about letting a man perform oral sex on them for the first time, maybe it has to do with how comfortable we are with our vulva (yes vulva not vagina, the vagina is the inside, the vulva is the outside which include the lips and clitoris) many women stray away from receiving oral sex because they are so self conscious, they worry they may smell, how it may taste, how it looks, etc…This is very common which is why I am an avid supporter of masturbation and self exploration so you know what does and does not work for your yoni.Or maybe we are afraid he won't do it well, geez how many females had to persevere through some B-A-D head? Just had to gently push his head away and say "thanks baby that was nice" LOL!! And in that case you need to open your mouth and tell him what to do, how soft, slow, or fast to do it and use your hands to guide him.
Or maybe he doesn't seem interested in doing it, if that is the case and you want to try it, you should verbally suggest that he "tastes it." I'm sure he does not have a problem "suggesting" that you taste his!
Women may actually prefer intercourse over receiving oral sex because intercourse is more "intimate" but cunnilingus can be very intimate, sensual and empowering. Even if you prefer to only have intercourse sex I do not understand how true foreplay can occur without a little tongue action… I am going to assume that most women let him cut the cake before he licked the frosting, but maybe I am wrong, you tell me!
And remember, Sex is cleaner with a packaged wiener!